Jakarta, CNBC Indonesia – The characteristics of successful people can be seen from an early age. But it didn’t all happen in an instant. Parental education and upbringing patterns will determine a child’s future.

Apart from that, it turns out there are several things that can be signs that a child has strong provisions to become a successful person.

Child psychologist and best-selling author Shefali Tsabary, PhD found that when parents are unfamiliar with their child’s unique temperament and traits, they fail to respect and celebrate their child’s true self.

“Knowing their type will strengthen the relationship between parents and children and help them understand themselves better,” said Tsabary as quoted by CNBC International, quoted on Sunday (15/10/2023).

According to him, there are six types of children who are the most extraordinary and talented. So what are the characteristics of a gifted child? Check out the information summarized by CNBC Indonesia below.

1. The Anxious Explosive

Often explodes, anxious, often talkative, irritable, and easily triggered by the slightest thing. The beauty of them is that they are very sensitive and easily offended. But this means they tend to absorb the anxiety around them.

To raise this type of child, be grounded, firm and calm. If you become reactive, whether in anger or anxiety, it can trigger a tsunami of emotions.

Praise them for their ability to process their environment, but also teach them to create the entertainment they need.

“When you feel nervous, close your eyes and repeat to yourself, ‘I’m safe, I’m home, and I’ll be fine.'” This expression can be said to this type of child.

2. The Hyperactive Explorer

The hyperactive explorer can’t sit still and is never where you left him. These children are often labeled troublesome by parents and teachers because they can be very active in their minds and bodies. But their superpower is that they are very curious and engaged.

To raise this type, it is necessary to respect and not shame them for their passionate enthusiasm. Show them unconditional acceptance so they can accept themselves in a world that may repeatedly push them away.

“I admire your creativity and imagination. Your different way of thinking can help you do extraordinary things,” can be said to this type of child.

3. The Bringer of Smiles

Overly happy people are like butter – soft and pliable, malleable and they are the perfect prey for parents who have a strong need for control.

They fill in the gaps, take over assignments, and earn gold stars. But because they really want to help, they often go too far and take over parental responsibilities. It can even be called an adult who is raised at home.

To raise this type of child, respect and teach them how to protect their boundaries. Remind them that their needs come first.

“You are a giver, and you may meet many people who will continue to take advantage of you. Remember that it is okay to say ‘no’.” These words can be said to this type of child.

4. The Dreamer

Quiet dreamer children tend to be shy and introverted, and struggle with social and conversational skills.

You may often find them staring into space, doodling in their notebooks, or spending so much time alone that you wonder if they are even in the house.

Many people may try to say that they should be the opposite, that they should be more extroverted. However, to raise this type of child, it is about helping them feel safe and highlighting their strengths.

“Don’t let other people tell you what to do. Remember, those who are able to be themselves are strong people. I admire you for who you are.” This statement can be said for this type of child.

5. Strong-Determined Rebel

They will not comply until they are sure that it is something they want to do. I know how hard it is for these kids. My daughter, Maia, is a rebel, and she has a confidence that makes her unafraid of authority.

These types of children need to feel appreciated for their determination. Let go of control and judgment.

“I like your ability to follow your own voice and not be influenced by popular opinion. However, don’t go against the rules just for the sake of fighting, or you will get exhausted,” these words can be said for this type of child.

6. The Bringer of Happiness and Luck

These kids are always laughing and in a good mood. They are not fussy, demanding or bossy. The only downside is that they can be too relaxed and seem unmotivated. As a result, some parents may think they are not ambitious enough.

Most parents don’t realize that this type of child is actually an expert in living in the present. Celebrate their positive approach to the world.

“You always bring peace and joy to every situation. Keep this rhythm, because it is the missing rhythm that the world needs to adopt.” These words can be said to this type of child.

[Gambas:Video CNBC]

(haa/haa)